From Routine to Random- the personal chain of command.

Wake up. Iron uniform. Pack suitcase. Check-in. Depart. Arrive. Check-out.

This sequence is my everyday. The contents in between these events can change but for the most part a day in the life of an FA is about as routine as it gets. Everything is layed out for us, from what type of service we are going to do, to the type of aircraft we fly. Everything is planned. What happens when one of these gets disrupted? I know that for the most part only aircrew reading this can relate but when we irop it messes with us more than you'd think.

Now take that on a much larger somewhat comical scale and relate it to personal life.

Born (check-in). School (iron). Job (pack/depart). Retire (arrive). Death (check-out).

Where is the random? Life is so full of routine. We have routine set for us from society and we have routine set for us by our family. As chaotic as some jobs may be, people can find routine in chaos. The more and more I type I realize that I seek the opposite! I seek chaos in routine. That little kick that can provide challenge, ignite passion and spawn a chain of events you can form to suit your needs. Did you catch the juxtaposition? 'Little kick." What exactly is the little kick? For some people it can be something as small as missing a meal in a day to throw you off. For others, it can be up and quitting a job at the snap of your fingers to find something you seek passion in (more often than not this is the story told by many FA's). The high you get from seeking chaos if often found at 40 000ft. Again, it'll vary for every crew but you can often find it in peoples stories. Listen carefully and its always there.

This kind of introduces what I would like to incorporate into my blog. I know it may seem like a copy and paste because it has been done before but collecting stories of passengers and finding how or what they seek in their travels. Routine or Random. There is a blog out there called thepaxin11d.blogspot.com. Essentially, the FA gives a 'questionnaire' to the passengers she encounters in the seat 11D. They fill it out and she posts it online. I was elated when I found this blog. I'm not doing this to copy by any means but I foresee passion in connecting with the passengers and why not extend this to the jump-seat. I intend to have to two sides. One from a passenger and one from a flight attendant. Stay tuned as I write my questionnaire and post my first stories!

A day in the life

One hour prior she arrives at her gate
"Hurry up!" said crew sked "You can't be late."
She does all her checks and says hello to the crew
She listens to the briefing and sets the coffee to brew.
No time for breakfast says the grumpy in-charge
Let's board this plane our load is quite large.

"Fasten your belt" and "Stow your tray"
"Please arm your door" we're on our way!
From corner to corner and north to south
She manages a smile from her mouth.

"Chicken or fish" she says with a grin
I have coffee and tea or tonic and gin
4 hours later she sits down to eat
that darn bell goes off and she's out of her seat.

Most of us all have the exact same day
Whether its Emirates, United, Delta or Cathay.
Up and down from zone to zone
Where you end up is always unknown!

From the people we meet and the places we see
Laughing it all off is really the key.
I wouldn't trade this job for anything new
its just a day in the life of a cabin crew.

IT'S PARADISE

Never refuse an invitation.
Never resist the unfamiliar.
Never fail to be polite.
Never fail to exist and keep your mind open.
If it hurts, you know what? Its probably worth it.
You hope and you dream
But you never believe something will happen to you
Not like it does in the movies
And when it actually does
You expect it to feel...
different.
more real.
What if it's now?
I'm waiting for it to hit me

Arrivals and Departures- or another day at the office?

As stated before, life is a series of arrivals and departures. People come and people go but the ones that stay, the ones that truly matter, are the constant in a world of in's and out's. Traveling from airport to airport we see it all; tears of goodbye's and tears of hello's. The airport can be such an emotional gateway, reuniting and tearing people apart. Diving right into it, we don't know. What does that fragment mean? We don't know, I don't know. It starts with you! I don't know what you just endured whether it be personally or operationally. You might have just said goodbye to your true love or might be departing for a funeral. You might have just had another flight cancelled and missed your sister's wedding. I don't know you, but what I do know is that with every departure there is an arrival. Every end there is a beginning. When you leave someone- someone else, whether it be instant or eventually, will be there on the other side. Bereavement travel is comparable. Boarding that flight is like the beginning of an end, but with the boarding comes an arrival. A reuniting of family, friends, and loved ones. As cabin crew we can get carried away with how we are treated or how we come across. But we just don't know. A lot of us don't realize that emotional roller coaster that can come with airports and we take it for granted that what might be the hardest thing for you, is just another day at the office for us. We do care, we really do! Sometimes it just takes a moment of goodbyes for ourselves personally to realize it. So with every departure and every arrival, if we treat it like an end and a beginning we can regain that empathy and sympathy that a lot of people want. Just a simple and sincere "how are you" does more than you'll ever know. It doesn't matter if your in 13F or in the jump seat. We are all human.

From the Slam-clicker to the Jumpseat Confessional-the parallels of actions and personalities.

Which are you?

Honestly I have to say there are two factors that determine if I will be a slam-clicker or a jumpseat confessional. First, the crew. If I’m working with senior FA’s who are calloused and crusty from the industry it’s clearly going to be a slam clicker kind of time.  If I have a more junior crew or I see the name of ‘that’ FA on my roster you know good times are going to be had.

A little bit of history on the slam-clicker vs. the jumpseat confessional. Have you ever been in the galley minding your own cart and the green wants nothing more than to tell you about the problems her and her boyfriend are going through? Remember you have only met this person THIS MORNING and she’s already telling you that his libido is a bit too much for her.  Have you ever been in the galley trying to mind your own cart but someone else is telling you your sugar is in the wrong spot? They openly pride themselves on being a FAM(flight attendant manual) licker? These two scenarios describe the jumpseat confessional and the slam clicker.

The jumpseat confessional. What drives one person to be able to meet someone and spill their darkest secrets in a matter of 2 flights? We’ve all done it at one point in time. Is it the factor that there’s an 80% chance you will never see this person again in your life and they provide an arbitrary point of view? Is it the 10% chance they have a story that can relate and a new friendship is formed? Or do you just want someone to bitch to? Who knows? As a passenger you can’t begin to comprehend once that curtain is shut what conversations take place in that galley.  One the jumpseat is flipped down and cruising altitude is reached, the skies the limit as far as conversation goes.  It becomes our own confessional booth. Some take the bait some don’t. Most of the time the ones that don’t fall into what we call the slam- clicker.

The slam clicker- hops out of van. Signs name on sign in sheet. Grabs room key. Takes elevator-not holding it for anyone. Exits elevator with no salutation. Opens door. Slams door. Clicks lock. R.I.P until check-in. What drives one person to be able to close themselves off from their coworkers-from the people they are trusting their daily lives with? We’ve all done it at one point in time. Is it the fact that you’re spending upwards of 14 hours a day with these people and once you are off the clock wan nothing to do with them? Probably. But I think that most of these instances where you encounter a slam-clicker are based upon personality. Introverted. Independent. They possess the ability to separate their work from their life on their pairing. If you can do this, tell me how. When I start a pairing, its one crew concept from check in on day 1 to check out on day 5.  Invites to dinner are extended, walks on the trails or even a java run for those early risers! Why separate what you are given for 5 days?  As a passenger, you cant being to comprehend once that uniform is off what can happen.  Crews and pairings are made and broke once that scarf is off.

I digress. I realize I’ve just summed up thousand and thousands of crews into two types of personalities, which isn’t very realistic or logical, but I know for the crews reading this its pretty damn close to true.  These past blog posts have been wordy and deep. I’ll change it up. I’ve been inspired with a fun to-do for my next blog. Until then I’ll leave you with the oldest one in the book.

She walks into the flight deck and asks, “Captain, coffee tea or me?”

Captain responds with “whatever is easier to make”